In 2012, after many memory tests and finally a CT scan, my dear mum was diagnosed with mixed dementia.
My step dad suffers from heart failure and is often unwell, so when mum’s memory really started to decline in 2014 I felt the time had come for them to move closer to me. As well as cleaning, cooking and shopping, the most important thing I do for my mum is to schedule quality time with her every day for crafts and music.
My mum has always been a very creative person and she passed on her love of arts and crafts to me. I graduated in 1984 with a degree in Art & Textile Design, but for many years my art was put on the back burner. It only resurfaced when I discovered how invaluable art could be for those with memory problems.
Of course what works for one person may not work for another, but art has helped my mum to live a meaningful life, staying happy and engaged despite her condition. Here are five of her favourite activities!
1. Paper flower making
My mum’s favourite hobby is making beautiful paper flowers. She loves making things she can give away to the doctors and nurses who visit... as well as the dentist, optician, hairdresser, friends and anyone else who admires them!
I provide a cardboard template for petals and leaves and my mum will happily sit for hours cutting out the pretty, brightly coloured crepe paper shapes. Together we glue the stamens and petals to the stems and once she's done two or three with me, she's able to carry on by herself. Beautiful crepe paper flowers fill the house and are a constant reminder to her that she is wonderfully creative.
